Columbus Ledger-Enquirer, Columbus, Sunday, December 16, 1990 MARRIED GrazianoTucker Heidi Tucker Anthony Graziano, both of Columbus, were married Nov. at St. Paul United Methodist Church, Rev. J. Keith Goodlett officiating.
Parents of the ple are retired Lt. and Mrs. Guy Tucker and Mr. and Mrs. phen Graziano, all Columbus.
Sue Barnwell was and the groom's A reception was The couple will JonesGentry Penny Layne Smiths, and Henry Jones of were married at Lakewood Church, Phenix Rev. Wayne Williams ating. Parents of the Mr. and Mrs. Thomas ter Gentry of Smiths, Jones of Columbus late Henry Jones.
Wendy Gentry Jeff Cundiff was A reception was The couple will Shuman-Kelly Kathy Kelly and Nov. 10 at Post Parents of the Adair of Columbus of San Diego, Calif. The couple will KennedyForrest Julie Lynn and David Kennedy, both of lem, were ried Nov. 16 at land Drive Church God, the Rev. McClain and Brenda Montgomery officiating.
Parents of the ple are Mr. and Donald Forrest of her sister's matron of honor father was best man. at Hampton Place Clubhouse. live in Columbus. Gentry of Michael Marietta, Dec.
15 Baptist City, the offici- Mrs. Graziano Mrs. Jones couple are WalVerdie and the Mrs. Jones was her sister's maid of honor and best man. at the church.
live in Marietta. Ziad Shuman were married Park Clubhouse, Atlanta. couple are Mr. and Mrs. Robert L.
and Mr. and Mrs. Tarek Shuman live in Bermuda. Forrest Wayne Samar- Woodof Wesley Pastor cou- lem and Mr. and Mrs.
Columbus. Elisha H. Murphy was groom's father was best A reception was at the The couple will live in NixonTomblin Sharon Denise Tomblin and John Edward Nixon, both of Phenix City, were married Nov. 9 at Schomburg Road Baptist Church, the Rev. David Jordan officiating.
Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. A.R. Tomblin Sr. of Phenix City, Mr.
and Mrs. Hugh Brasington of Columbus and the Nancy Wilbanks Dennis Hill was best A reception was at The couple will live JonesSuber Judith Lynne Suber and Gregory Kent Jones, both of Columbus, were married Nov. 17 at Rosehill Baptist Church, Dr. Kenneth Barbee officiating. Parents of the couple are retired Lt.
Col. and Mrs. Carson G. Suber of Columbus, retired 1st Sgt. William R.
Jones of Pilgrims Jones. Honor attendants Payne and Ramona Bobby Ratliff, David A reception was at The couple will live EvansWilliams Kimberly Denise Williams and Bertraum Bernard Evans, both of Columbus, were married Nov. at Fort Benning's Main Post Chapel, the Rev. J.H. Flakes officiating.
Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. Ned V. Williams and Jacqueline Carr Evans, all of Columbus, Michelle Walker Nettles was best man. A reception was at The couple will live BessDeLoach P.
Suzanne DeLoach and Ricky C. Bess, both of Seale, were married Nov. 10 at First Assembly of God, Phenix City, the Rev. Bruce Cooper officiating. Parents of the couple are Jesse DeLoach of Jacksonville, Jean Regan of Salem, June Bess of Phenix City and Hosea C.
Beth Tucker, Sonja and Angela Hysmith groom's father and A reception was at The couple will live Mrs. Bess Bess of Salem. DeLoach, the bride's sisters, were honor attendants and the Robert Crum were best men. the church. in Seale.
PeaceJacobs Patricia D. Jacobs and Gerry E. Peace, both of Phenix City, were married Nov. 10 at Seale Road Baptist Church, the Rev. Jerold Parker officiating.
Parents of the couple are Nadine Jacobs Ashbaugh of Phenix City, the late Frank Jacobs and Mr. and Mrs. Peace Mrs. Haroldean Peace of Phenix City. Honor attendants were Cheryl J.
Adams and Wanda J. Haden and the groom's father was best man. A reception was at the church. The couple will live in Smiths, Ala. LocklarWhite LocklarWhite Wendy Leigh White and Joseph Virgil Locklar, both of Auburn, were married Dec.
15 at First Baptist Church, Gadsden, Dr. Richard Cagle officiating. Parents of the couple are Dr. Boyce White and Barbara White, both of Gadsden, and Virgil and Marjorie Locklar of Columbus. Honor attendants were Dawn White and Farah White, the bride's sisters, was best man.
A reception was at the Gadsden. The couple will live in Lee-Potter Tracy Renee both of Columbus, Christian Church, Parents of Columbus, E. Rick and Denise April Lynn groom's father A reception The couple KelleyGreene Potter and Michael Wayne Lee, were married Oct. 6 at Central Douglas Garner officiating. the couple are Darlyne M.
Frost of Ronald Potter of Phenix City and Harris of Talbotton, Ga. Adams was maid of honor and the was best man. was at the church. will live in Columbus. Cynthia Amanda Greene of Lumpkin, and Jesse Williams Kelley of Columbus were married Dec.
15 at Lumpkin United Methodist Church, the Rev. Edward Holloway officiating. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs. William Neal Greene of Lumpkin, Mrs.
Jerry Evans Kelley of Richland, and James Frederick Kelley of Albany, Ga. Honor attendants were Wright and the groom's father A reception was at the The couple will live in JensenBrown Vera Leigh Brown of Phenix City and Richard Alan Jensen of Auburn, were married Dec. 15 at Summerville Baptist Church, Bobby Holliday officiating. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs.
Bronwin Clyde Brown of Phenix City and Mr. and Mrs. Richard Jensen Sr. of Elberta, Ala. Honor attendants were Giovanna Rodriguez and groom's father was best A reception was at the The couple will live in BatesBrazell Susan Velma Brazell and Charles Dean Bates, both of Phenix City, were married Nov.
24 at Temple Baptist Church, the Rev. J.W. Harden officiating. Parents of the couple are Mr. and Mrs.
Gene Lloyd of Phenix City, the late James Fred Brazell, Alice Bates and Harold Bates, Cindy Dudley was her and Greg Lester was best A reception was at the The couple will live in McMichaelThomas Frances Lynn Thomas and John Robert McMichael both of Columbus, were married Dec. 15 at Rose Hill Baptist Church, Dr. Kenneth J. Barbee officiating. Parents of the couple are Mr.
and Mrs. M. Hale Thomas and Mrs. John Robert McMichael all of Columbus and the late Mr. McMichael.
Honor attendants were Pair and Jack Leonard Wills A reception was at the The couple will live in ENGAGED Bone- Haymond Mrs. McMichael Mary Owens and Slade was best man. Springer Opera House. Columbus. Mr.
and Mrs. Norman F. Bone of Columbus announce the engagement of their daughter, Tamara Brooke Bone, to James Anthony Haymond of Albany, son of Mr. and Mrs. James R.
Haymond Jr. of LaGrange. A Feb. 23 wedding at Eastern Heights Baptist Church is planned. The bride-elect is a 1987 graduate of Columbus High School and attended Andrew College, Cuthbert, and received a paralegal certification from Columbus College this month.
She is employed by Trust Company Bank. The groom-elect is a 1987 graduate of Columbus High School and attended Columbus College. He is employed by Southern Bell, Albany. Booker -Hodges Mr. and Mrs.
Kenneth Booker Jr. of Albany, announce the engagement of their daughter, Michelle Lynn Booker, to Michael Len Hodges, son of Mr. and Mrs. John Hodges of Columbus. A Jan.
26 wedding at Bridgeboro Baptist Church, Bridgeboro, is planned. The bride-elect is a graduate of Worth County High School and received an associate's degree in accounting from Darton College. She is employed as a bookkeeper for Brown Milling Bridgeboro. The groom-elect is a graduate of Columbus High School and received a bachelor's degree in forestry from Auburn University. He is employed as an area procurement forester with Georgia-Pacific Corp.
Vann-Staula Mr. and Mrs. James B. Vann of Smiths, announce the engagement of their daughter, Cynthia Leigh Vann, to Steven Edward Staula, son of Margarie Staula of Columbus and Eddie Staula of California. A May 25 wedding at Summerville Baptist Church is planned.
The bride-elect is a 1988 graduate of Smiths Station High School and attends Meadows College, School of Cosmetology. The groom-elect is a 1986 graduate of Columbus High School and attends Columbus College. He is employed by Telecable of Columbus. Parkman-Brown Mrs. John Michael Parkman of Columbus announces the engagement of her daughter, Evelyn Beth Parkman, to Dr.
Richard L. Brown son of Mr. and Mrs. Richard Brown of Barstow, Calif. A Jan.
19 wedding at Waldrop Memorial Baptist Church, Columbus, is planned. The bride-elect is a 1982 graduate of Hardaway High School and attended Columbus College. She is employed by Meritas Yarns. The groom-elect is a 1982 graduate of Barstow High School, California, and a 1989 graduate of the University of Oklahoma College of Dentistry. He is presently serving in the U.S.
Army stationed in Germany. VanHorn- -Williams Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Ray VanHorn of Salem, announce the engagement of their daughter, Julie Diane VanHorn, to Floyd Carlton Williams, son of Mildred E. Williams of Raleigh, N.C.
A Feb. 9 wedding at Morningside Baptist Church is planned. The bride-elect is a 1983 graduate of Shaw High School, attended Georgia Southwestern College and is a 1988 graduate of Columbus College where she received a bachelor's degree in economics. She is employed as a flight attendant by American Airlines, Chicago, Ill. The groom-elect is a 1981 graduate of Smiths Station High School, attended Auburn University and is a 1987 graduate of Columbus College where he received a bachelor's degree in sports medicine and a bachelor's degree in education.
He is employed by Hoechst Roussel Pharmaceuticals as a sales representative. Mr. and Mrs. Benny E. Thorn of Columbus announce the engagement of their daughter, Pamela Jean Thorn, to James Theo Richarson.
A Jan. 26 wedding at Wynnbrook Baptist Church is planned. The bride-elect is a 1987 graduate of Shaw High School and is employed as a customer service representative for the Georgia Power Co. The groom-elect is 1975 graduate of Harris County High School and is employed by the State of Georgia as a telecommunications technician. BIRTHS TWINS Jonathan Edward and Melissa Susan Anderson Born to James Edward and Mary Susan Schauer Anderson of Rochester, Oct.
2, at the Methodist Hospital, Rochester. Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Edward Anderson and Mr. and Mrs.
and Mrs. Frank Schauer. GIRLS Carmen Amanda Williams Born to Chuck and Mandy Williams of Phenix City, Dec. 4, at The Medical Center. Grandparents are Mr.
and Mrs. Horace Williams, Mr. and Mrs. Skeet Biber and Dr. and Mrs.
G.G. Ochoa. Great-grandmother is Loyce Sutton. 'Creative fighting' takes acquired skills the last article I stated that people in To intimate relationships fight (conflict) with Leach other because they are different and they value those differences. I also said there are good fights and bad ones and that in good fights, everybody feels like a winner, new understandings are reached, compromises agreed on and new directions taken toward the achievement of both persons' goals.
Another characteristic about "creative fighting" is it requires skills which do not come naturally to most of us, but skills which can be learned at any stage of our life. Most people don't know how to have a "good" fight because (1) they have never learned how and (2) because they have learned to fear conflict, of Mrs. Kennedy Wayne Kennedy of matron of honor and the man. church. Salem.
Mrs. Nixon late Norris Nixon. was matron of honor and man. the church. in Phenix City.
Mrs. Jones Knob, and the late Carol were Tammy Allen, Pamela Howard and best men were Suber and Mike Allen. the church. in Columbus. Mrs.
Evans and the late Albert Evans. was maid of honor and Patrick the Lodge Clubhouse. in Fort Polk, La. especially with people they depend on for love. Eddy (not his real name) grew up in a family sick with alcoholism.
His father was a drunk, but the family worked hard to cover it up from others, including them- David Funk selves. "Your father isn't feeling well" was the message the children got when father ranted and raved at them. The physical abuse was frightening and Eddy vowed he would avoid any conflict at all costs. It was a long time before he could risk an honest confrontation with his wife. To "fight" for some folks is equal to being rejected.
Many people, like Eddy, have been taught it is not all right to have angry feelings, let alone express them. In other words, it is all right to be glad and sad, but not mad. It is possible to define your fight style. Your fight style is the techniques you use, and how "good" or "bad" your fights are. It says something about how "fair" or "dirty" you fight and whether you really believe you can win and the other person lose.
It is also possible for you to learn other ways of fighting which may be more creative and less destructive to you and your fight partner. When we are so close to things, it is sometimes useful to have someone help us point our "style" out to us. In the next article we will look at some fight styles and techniques which may insure that your fights will be good ones. The Rev. David L.
Funk is a senior counselor with The Pastoral Institute. Mrs. Locklar and the groom's Cultural Arts Auburn. Mrs. Kelley father Center, Gail Lynch and Elaine was best man.
bride's parents' home. Columbus. Mrs. Jensen Eddie Williams and the man. church.
Auburn. Mrs. Bates Mrs. Bates both of Phenix City. sister's matron of honor man.
church. Phenix City. ANN ANNOUNCEMENTS Please send us announcements of births, engagements, weddings and anniversaries (from 50th up). All are published at no charge. Submit information IN WRITING (typed or neatly printed).
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Submit birth announcements within 30 days. Engagements and Weddings Announcements are published in the Sunday Ledger-Enquirer. Deadline for announcements is two weeks prior to the Sunday desired for publication. Anniversaries Announcements are published in the Sunday Ledger-Enquirer. Deadline is two weeks before the anniversary takes place, in order to schedule a photograph of the couple in our studio.
Photos are taken 9 a.m. Monday-Friday. There is no charge. Call 571-8520 to schedule a photograph. Thorn Haley Alesia Cooper Born to Bobby and Cecille Cooper of Fortson, Nov.
26, at The Medical Center. Grandparents are Kay and Jay Cooper, Alesia Cupp and the late Roy Cupp. Stephanie Holly Reeves Born to Rickey and Rebecca Reeves of Phenix City, Nov. 24, at The Medical Center. Grandparents are Milton R.
and Joyce L. Reeves. Shtorie Rontae Sumbry Born to Ronald and Tessie Sumbry of Seale, Nov. 28, at The Medical Center. Grandparents are Daisy Blanding and Margaret Sumbry.
Great-grandparents are Susie Bass and Eddie Lue Richardson. Alexus Nycole Paul Born to Paul and Rhonda Paul of Columbus, Nov. 27, at The Medical Center. Grandparents are Walter and Carol Stapleton, Betty J. Paul and the late William Howard Paul.
Great grandparents Strickland. are Mary Frantz, Bertie BulPortia Lyndol Leigh Curenton Born to Katrina J. and Ronald G. Curenton of Waverly Hall, Dec. 1, at The Medical Center.
Grandparents are Cynthia and Ted Jankiewicz, Martha Matthews and A.J. and Mattie Curenton. Great-grandparents are Lyndol Wade and Walter Jankiewicz. -grandmother is Evie Wade. Jada Evelyn Whitman Born to Travis and Leah Whitman of Eufaula, Nov.
30, at The Medical Center. Grandparents are Mr. and Mrs. Fred Whitman, Mr. and Mrs.
J.E. Gentry and the late Evelyn Gentry. See BIRTHS, Page F-5 24 Jr..
